Teens think a lot about what they want in a relationship. This is an opportunity for youthworkers to help them align w/ God’s design for sex & relationships
Teenagers are intensely relational. They are figuring out who they are and what it means to be a friend. They are also thinking about what they desire in a relationship. This is a very normal stage of development. It is also an incredible opportunity for youth workers to help teenagers figure out how to align their lives with God’s design for sex and relationships.
A survey at a high school outreach camp asked a few hundred kids this question:
What is one thing that you want from a relationship?
Here are their answers:
30 Things Teenagers are Looking for in a Relationship
- the comfort of having someone
- connection
- unconditional love
- to know and be known
- honesty
- fun
- faithfulness
- love
- truth
- compromise
- freedom
- true friendship
- attention
- respect
- support
- a good friend
- laughter
- love appreciation for being yourself
- no pressure
- challenge
- accountability
- encouragement
- a companion
- long term commitment
- good communication
- to make each better
- someone to respect my morals
- trust
- someone to talk to
- someone to take care of me
What else do you think high school kids are looking for in a relationship? Try asking your group of teenagers this question at your next retreat or camp and see what they say.
How have you helped teenagers learn how to align with God’s design for sex and relationships? Please comment below!
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