Teens think a lot about what they want in a relationship. This is an opportunity for youthworkers to help them align w/ God’s design for sex & relationships

Teenagers are intensely relational. They are figuring out who they are and what it means to be a friend. They are also thinking about what they desire in a relationship. This is a very normal stage of development. It is also an incredible opportunity for youth workers to help teenagers figure out how to align their lives with God’s design for sex and relationships.

A survey at a high school outreach camp asked a few hundred kids this question:

What is one thing that you want from a relationship?

Here are their answers:

30 Things Teenagers are Looking for in a Relationship

1. the comfort of having someone
2. connection
3. unconditional love
4. to know and be known
5. honesty
6. fun
7. faithfulness
8. love
9. truth
10. compromise
11. freedom
12. true friendship
13. attention
14. respect
15. support
16. a good friend
17. laughter
18. love appreciation for being yourself
19. no pressure
20. challenge
21. accountability
22. encouragement
23. a companion
24. long term commitment
25. good communication
26. to make each better
27. someone to respect my morals
28. trust
29. someone to talk to
30. someone to take care of me

What else do you think high school kids are looking for in a relationship? Try asking your group of teenagers this question at your next retreat or camp and see what they say.

How have you helped teenagers learn how to align with God’s design for sex and relationships? Please comment below!