There is no question that young people need to be discipled to grow in their leadership abilities. The implications of the pandemic have disoriented and discouraged many leaders. I encourage you to rest on God’s sovereign involvement and leadership of your life as a leader. Scripture shows us the Lord determines your place, people, and purpose, even when you may not understand or have planned for it.
Category Archives: Discipleship
4 Things We Long For During Trials
Friendship is powerful. During adolescence, it becomes central to almost everything, especially trials. One of the privileges of discipling young people is being able to walk through trials with them and point them to Jesus when they need healthy support. From our smallest needs to our most epic feelings of desperation, we all long for someone who loves us, is reliable, is capable, and is willing to humble themselves enough to help, even if it requires sacrifice. The Gospel of John shows 4 reasons why we should turn to Jesus in times of trouble that you can use to point young people to Christ. He is the best friend and ultimate support in times of need.
Don’t Be A Cloud Without Rain: How to Creatively Share the Hope of Jesus
The people in your life are there under God’s sovereign authority. As a disciple of Christ, it is important to intentionally invest in the relationships around us and to be verbal about what we know about Jesus.
There is an immense challenge in Jude 12-13 to not let our knowledge of the Gospel go to waste. “These are hidden reefs at your love feasts, as they feast with you without fear, shepherds feeding themselves; waterless clouds, swept along by winds; fruitless trees in late autumn, twice dead, uprooted; wild waves of the sea, casting up the foam of their own shame; wandering stars, for whom the gloom of utter darkness has been reserved forever.”
People who have not put their trust in Jesus Christ are like withering plants who desperately need water for their roots. In the same way that plants need rain, people need a personal relationship with Jesus. Imagine how plants respond when their roots are watered. Being verbal with what we know about Jesus is like rain to a dry soul. We can communicate the hope people need and will nourish their roots. As a disciple of Christ, we must be responsible to make sure we are not clouds without rain. To be intentional and loving in our relationships we must not hold back the rain that their souls need.
Step Outside of Your Comfort Zone and Be a Cloud that Rains
Here are some questions you can ask to help you think of creative ways to share the hope of the Gospel with others.
- What would I want if I were ________ (person’s name)?
- The answer to this question is what we can strive for and pray for. Assume more often than not that we might be the one to provide the need rather than think it is someone else’s calling.
- Don’t assume that this person will care about you and your needs at first. Focus on asking them probing, preplanned questions and actively listen to their responses.
- What does _________ (person’s name) want that Jesus has to offer? What do they need that they might not realize?
- How can you creatively show the person that what they want and need can be found in a relationship with Jesus?
- How can you creatively show the person that what they want and need can be found in a relationship with Jesus?
- How can you restate their objections into a goal?
- An example: “I would lose so much freedom if I became a follower of Jesus.” You can consider ways that you could show this person that freedom is gained by following Jesus. Our life expands and opens up when we follow Jesus, it does not narrow and become boring like some might think it does.
This takes prayerful consideration and creativity. It is important to also remember that people will always have concerns that we strive to address, but it is ultimately God who draws people to himself (John 6:41-44). He will use you in the time, place, and community he has placed you in. Remain in Him, and you will bear much fruit.
Stay Accountable
- Evaluate your own roots. Are they healthy? Do you need rain?
- In my last post, I offered a worksheet to identify your 12/3. How have you been intentional with those people?
- Who in your life needs to hear the Gospel? Humbly choose to step outside of your comfort zone and be rain to dry souls.
URGENT NEED FOR DISCIPLING LEADERSHIP
Loneliness At Record High, Trust in Religious Institutions At Record Low
Recent studies from the Pew Research Centerb and Springtide Research Institute show something significant happening in peoples’ spiritual lives. People are turning from religion. Millennials are raising their children without the church. People have lost trust in religious institutions. However, even though people are walking away from religion, they aren’t necessarily abandoning spirituality. How are faith leaders going to meet this reality as they evangelize and disciple young people in their relationship with Jesus?
Springtide Research Institute has one of the largest datasets on the state of youth in America. The data undeniably points to the need for discipling leadership from adults. Springtide summarizes their enormous dataset like this:
How to Tell Your Life Story
You’ve probably heard this before: “Everyone has a story.” For some people, telling their own story comes naturally. But for others, it can be a real challenge. One of the main things that keep leaders from sharing their personal life story with students is insecurity. If you’re a leader who wants to witness the relational power of your life story, you can combat your storytelling insecurity by intentionally building 3 things into your life:
- Confidence in the value God gives to your story
- Practice with telling your story
- Dependence on the Holy Spirit to help you share your story
If you simply invest the time to build these three things, you can share your personal life story (and help other people share theirs too!) the way it was meant to be shared: as a gift that changes lives and deepens relationships in ministry.
How to Tell Symbolic Stories
Leaders who tell the gospel story and their personal life story are off to a great start with becoming impactful storytellers. But there’s one more story type that’s worth keeping in your back pocket: the symbolic story.
What’s a symbolic story? A symbolic story uses simple language to convey a complex point. A few examples of these are Jesus’s parables, personal word pictures, legends, or historical anecdotes. In a previous post, we looked at the way Nathan the prophet used a symbolic story to gently confront David about his sin. Using a symbolic story that represented David’s situation (rather than exposing it explicitly from the get-go) softened David’s heart and brought him to a place of repentance. Symbolic stories are powerful!
3 Kinds of Stories that Leaders Should Tell
One of the best ways to reach people is through storytelling. Storytelling softens people’s hearts and makes space for transformation. In the last post, we talked about the why behind storytelling. Youth leaders tell stories because Jesus told stories, people remember stories, and creation is a story. But which stories should leaders tell? There are three kinds of storytelling leaders should learn: The Gospel story, symbolic stories, and life stories.
Why Good Leaders Tell Stories
As a youth leader, are you ever scrambling for a natural way to introduce students to Jesus? How can we present Jesus to kids as the winsome, relatable Lord that he is?
Leaders who understand the power of storytelling see transformation in the lives around them. By the end of this story series, I hope you’ll be able to practically use 3 specific kinds of storytelling in your ministry and witness their transformative power. To get there, we’ll unpack these 3 questions:
- Why youth leaders should tell stories
- Which stories to tell
- How to tell them
Let’s dive in! Why should youth leaders tell stories?
Discipleship: Think BIG, Focus small (Green Zone)
When we look at the call of youth ministry, it is easy to feel overwhelmed by the scope of such a calling. Before he ascended to heaven, Jesus called his disciples to, “go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation” (Mark 16:15). This is no small task! As Christian leaders, we too have been invited to proclaim the good news of Jesus to the whole of creation. Jesus asks us to think big. But how do we even begin such a giant mission? The only way to understand Jesus’s design for mission is to learn from his perfect example of life on earth.